
It baffles me to see things go wrong and people look away from it or they claim not to even see such. We live in a world of battles and shackles as nothing seems to be normal in town. Through thick and thin, several people have survived life challenges as they occur but it is expedient to hold on to the truth.
It really peeves me to hear all blames by people focusing on poverty and the government. Let us consider the government first. At a bulk of time, we forget that we people are the government, we rule ourselves. Our nonchalant attitude has brought us this far. The ‘government’ as we tag the rulers care less because we are careless and also care less. These are two different things. We are careless to have allowed people like us to beguile us, we accepted deceit joyfully and blame others for our fault. We care less because we do not see our power as a powerful substance.
Considering poverty, we need to see things with a clearer vision. Poverty is not for some people, neither is it a choice but you really need to raise your mind standards to befit the glory you deserve.
Honestly, I have not forgotten my destination but I cannot but branch a few places. I will like to share a story with you so that you will clearly get my message. A few days ago, I was in a tricycle I boarded to work and beside me sat two siblings of both sexes. They lapped each other. The elder brother lapped the younger sister but I noticed that the elder brother was using his younger sister to satisfy his sexual pleasure. This is wrong for crying out loud. He was incessantly complaining of her sitting position not being centralised on his thighs. The younger sister was wondering why her brother was complaining but it was not clear to her that his brother was satisfying himself sexually.
How can the society be sure that that boy is not masturbating or sexually harassing his sister at home? It is a pity that we look away from things that really matter to us. We consider our problems from the surface without looking into the deep structure of it. If their parents were asked why they will watch children of over ten years lap each other in a public transport, they will blame poverty. But is it very possible for the parents to search their area and not find good enough schools for their children?
We all really need to know that poverty is one thing and we ourselves are another thing. We do not have to keep doing same thing same way. Necessary steps should be taken to make sure that life is worth living for them at least conducive for others to live in. Appropriate actions should be taken to make sure things stop falling out of place. It is not over until it is over. If we do not stop molestation, sexual harassment, violence and other negativities in our society, no one will do that for us. Stop hiding behind the walls of poverty just to do wrong things.
This is a collective responsibility of the society. I am playing my part by exposing this wrong act. You too can play your part by stopping the ill from your side. If you used to see nothing wrong in our discussion for today, please, note now that it is wrong and take necessary steps to further avoid such.
I will leave you with this note, when the ball is in your court, do very well to play your part decently.
Temi G writes